How far is too far in a Christian dating relationship?

The question itself often reveals the wrong aim — “How much can I get away with?” Scripture invites a better question: “How can I love and honour this person, and honour God, in how I treat them?” Purity is not a cage; it is the protection of something precious for its right time and place. God's design reserves sexual intimacy for the covenant of marriage, and that boundary is for our joy and protection, not our frustration. Practically, this means guarding not just actions but the steps that lead there — privacy, lingering touch, and situations that erode resolve. Wisdom builds fences well back from the cliff edge. Aim higher than a line you must not cross; aim at cherishing the other person as a brother or sister in Christ first. If you would be ashamed for them to be treated this way by someone else, that is your answer. Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 4:3 — “This is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication.” Take this step: Set clear physical and situational boundaries together, out loud, early — and invite an older, trusted couple or mentor to hold you accountable to them.