The Freedom of Not Being in Charge
The Freedom of Not Being in Charge
Tolu Olowoyeye · October 7, 2026
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When Jesus deals with anxiety in the Sermon on the Mount, He does not offer a technique. He offers a change of government. "Do not worry about your life," He says, and then points at the most ordinary things around Him, the birds of the air, the lilies of the field. The birds do not sow or reap or store away in barns, yet your heavenly Father feeds them. The lilies do not labour or spin, yet Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of them ().
His logic is quietly devastating. If God clothes the grass, which is here today and thrown into the oven tomorrow, will He not much more take care of you? The point is not that we should be careless. It is that so much of our worry is really an attempt to carry a responsibility that was never ours in the first place. We lie awake trying to manage outcomes we cannot control, guarantee a future we cannot see, and hold together a world we did not make and are not asked to sustain.
Insight: Anxiety is what happens when you try to do God's job with your resources. Peace begins the moment you hand the throne back to its rightful owner.
Jesus is honest that tomorrow will have its troubles. He does not promise a life without difficulty. What He promises is a Father who already knows what you need before you ask, and who has never once been caught out by a sunrise. The birds are not anxious, not because they have worked out the future, but because they live inside a provision they did not have to arrange.
Then comes the reordering: "seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you" (). The cure for anxiety is not to think harder about your needs. It is to give your first and best attention to God, and to trust the rest to the One who is actually in charge.
You were never meant to hold the controls. The freedom you are aching for is on the other side of admitting it.
Pray this: Father, I confess how much of my worry is the weight of trying to be God over my own life. I hand the controls back to You. Help me seek Your kingdom first and trust You with everything I cannot carry. Amen.
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