The Weight of the Mantle, Authority That Humility Alone Can Carry
LeadershipMatthew 23:11-12
But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant. And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted.
By Matthew (Tolu) Olowoyeye
Opening: The Most Dangerous Season in Ministry
There is a season in every growing minister's life that is more spiritually dangerous than the wilderness. More treacherous than obscurity. More threatening than opposition.
It is the season when people begin to follow you.
When the invitations start arriving. When the congregation grows. When your name begins to be known beyond your immediate circle. When young ministers look to you for guidance. When you are introduced on platforms and people applaud not just the message but the messenger.
This season is dangerous not because influence is wrong, influence is God's design. It is dangerous because it reveals what was always in you, and does so in a context where the consequences of pride are larger, more public, and more far-reaching than ever before.
Part One: The Paradox of Anointed Authority
, "Now the man Moses was very meek, above all the men which were upon the face of the earth."
Moses. The man who parted the Red Sea. Who spoke with God face to face. Who received the Ten Commandments from God's own hand. Who led 2 million people through a wilderness for 40 years. The most powerful minister the Old Testament ever produced.
And the biblical summary of his character? He was the meekest man on earth.
Not the most gifted. Not the most anointed. Not the most educated or the most eloquent, he himself said he was slow of speech (). The meekest.
This is the paradox that the Kingdom consistently presents: true authority and genuine meekness are not opposites. They are inseparable companions. The greater the authority, the deeper the meekness required to carry it without it destroying both the carrier and those around them.
Part Two: What Pride Does to a Ministry
The Bible is full of cautionary portraits of gifted ministers destroyed by pride. Let us look at two.
Uzziah, records one of the great success stories of Judah's history. Uzziah built. He expanded. He strengthened. He was marvellously helped. And then verse 15 delivers the fatal hinge: "His name spread far abroad; for he was marvellously helped, till he was strong: but when he was strong, his heart was lifted up to his destruction."
He entered the Temple to burn incense, a role reserved for priests alone. The priests confronted him. He raged. And he died a leper. His final years, which should have been his legacy years, were spent in isolation and shame.
The pattern: strength → fame → pride → transgression of God-assigned boundaries → destruction.
Nebuchadnezzar, records the most dramatic humbling in Scripture. The most powerful king in the world, walking on the roof of his palace, saying: "Is not this great Babylon, that I have built?" (v.30). Before the words finished leaving his mouth, the voice of God came from heaven, and within hours, he was eating grass in a field like an animal.
The pattern is identical. And God Himself explains why it was necessary: "That the living may know that the most High ruleth in the kingdom of men" (v.17).
Pride does not just damage the minister. It robs God of His glory in the ministry. And God will not share His glory ().
Part Three: Five Practices That Keep a Growing Minister Humble
1. Maintain Relationships That Predate Your Platform
The people who knew you before the platform are your most valuable relationships in the season of influence. They knew you when you were uncertain, when you failed, when you were ordinary. They cannot be impressed by the persona because they know the person. Keep those relationships vigorously alive. If you find yourself drifting from people who knew your early years, that is a warning sign.
2. Stay in the Presence of Someone Greater
David had Samuel and later Nathan. Joshua had Moses. Timothy had Paul. Elisha had Elijah. Find and maintain relationship with a minister of greater spiritual depth than your current position, someone in whose presence you are the student, not the teacher. The minister who has no one they are learning from has likely begun to believe they have nothing left to learn.
3. Serve Outside Your Platform Regularly
Jesus washed feet the night before He was crucified, in full awareness that "the Father had given all things into his hands" (). He served from a position of absolute authority. Find regular, private, unglamorous acts of service that no one applauds, and do them consistently. It recalibrates your soul's posture toward greatness.
4. Do Regular Pride Audits
Quarterly, ask yourself these specific questions: Am I easier to correct now than I was six months ago, or harder? Am I crediting God genuinely in my successes, or am I crediting God verbally while believing personally that my gifts deserve the acknowledgment? Do I genuinely celebrate the success of other ministers, or does their growth quietly threaten me?
5. Pray the Prayer of John the Baptist
, "He must increase, but I must decrease."
Make this not merely a theological position but a daily, specific, intentional prayer: "God, let everything I do today make You more visible and me less so. Let my platform be Your pulpit. Let my name be forgotten in the service of Your name being known."
Conclusion: The Towel Is the Crown
On the night Jesus most needed to be served, the night before His crucifixion, He picked up a towel and washed the feet of twelve men. One of whom was about to betray Him. One of whom was about to deny Him three times.
He had all authority. He chose a towel.
That towel, that posture, is the mark of the minister God entrusts with the most. Not the stage. Not the title. Not the following.
The towel.
"Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time.",
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